WHAT MAKES A MANLY

There is no truer statement: men are simple. Get this first into your head Gal! You need to understand these essential truths and let this truth sink into your head. 

Men are driven by who they are, what they do, and how much they make. No matter if a man is a CEO, a CON or both, everything he does is filtered through his title (Who he is), how he gets the title (what he does), and the reward he gets for the effort (how much he makes). 

These three things make up the basic DNA of manhood_ the three accomplishments: every man must achieve before he feels like he’s truly fulfilled his destiny as a man. And until he’s achieved his goal in those three areas, the man you are dating, committed to , or married to will be too busy to focus on you.

Think about it: from the moment a boy is born, the first thing everyone around starts doing is telling him what he must do to be a real man. He is tough_ to wrestle, climb, get up without crying, not let anyone push him around. He is taught to work hard_ to do chores around the house and as soon as he’s old enough, get a job. He is taught to protect_ to watch out for his mother and his younger siblings, to watch over the house and the family’s property. 

And he is especially encouraged to uphold his family’s name make something of himself so that when he walks in a room, everybody is clear about who he is, what he does, and how much he makes. Each of these is taught in preparation for one thing: manhood.

The pursuit of manhood doesn’t change once a boy is grown. In fact, it’s only magnified. 

His focus has always been on, and will remain on, who he is, what he does, and how much he makes until he feels like he’s achieved his mission. And until a man does these things , women only fit into the cracks of his life.

 He’s not thinking about settling down, having children, or building a home with anyone until he’s got all three of those things in sync. I’m not saying that he has to have made it but at least he has to be on track to making it.

If men aren’t pursuing their  dreams_ if they are not chasing the “Who We Are,” the “What We Do,” and “How Much We Make” They are doomed. Dead. 

They want to be/feel like they're number one.The Best somewhere. In charge! They know they're not going to be the head in every situation, but somewhere in their lives, they are going to be the one everyone answers to because it that important to them.The moments a man figure out the puzzle and feel like his dreams are taking shape,new life breathes into him- it makes him vibrant, enthuses, animated and not chocked.

Women forgets this or don’t seem to care about this so much! But for men it everything!!!

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Sapphire Bukola Joseph For Being A Bitch-Ass Researcher .

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