STOP TRIPPING

What happens when a Gal is not more selective about her availability? What happens when a Gal overcompensates?What happen when a Gal drops everything and drives or enter Molue to see a man?  Do you have a clue what that means! I bet you don’t. 

Let me help you to create that perfect picture since you’re jonzing. What’s the picture? Here is the picture.

WHAT MAKES A MANLY

There is no truer statement: men are simple. Get this first into your head Gal! You need to understand these essential truths and let this truth sink into your head. 

Men are driven by who they are, what they do, and how much they make. No matter if a man is a CEO, a CON or both, everything he does is filtered through his title (Who he is), how he gets the title (what he does), and the reward he gets for the effort (how much he makes). 

These three things make up the basic DNA of manhood_ the three accomplishments: every man must achieve before he feels like he’s truly fulfilled his destiny as a man. And until he’s achieved his goal in those three areas, the man you are dating, committed to , or married to will be too busy to focus on you.

Think about it: from the moment a boy is born, the first thing everyone around starts doing is telling him what he must do to be a real man. He is tough_ to wrestle, climb, get up without crying, not let anyone push him around. He is taught to work hard_ to do chores around the house and as soon as he’s old enough, get a job. He is taught to protect_ to watch out for his mother and his younger siblings, to watch over the house and the family’s property. 

And he is especially encouraged to uphold his family’s name make something of himself so that when he walks in a room, everybody is clear about who he is, what he does, and how much he makes. Each of these is taught in preparation for one thing: manhood.

The pursuit of manhood doesn’t change once a boy is grown. In fact, it’s only magnified. 

His focus has always been on, and will remain on, who he is, what he does, and how much he makes until he feels like he’s achieved his mission. And until a man does these things , women only fit into the cracks of his life.

 He’s not thinking about settling down, having children, or building a home with anyone until he’s got all three of those things in sync. I’m not saying that he has to have made it but at least he has to be on track to making it.

If men aren’t pursuing their  dreams_ if they are not chasing the “Who We Are,” the “What We Do,” and “How Much We Make” They are doomed. Dead. 

They want to be/feel like they're number one.The Best somewhere. In charge! They know they're not going to be the head in every situation, but somewhere in their lives, they are going to be the one everyone answers to because it that important to them.The moments a man figure out the puzzle and feel like his dreams are taking shape,new life breathes into him- it makes him vibrant, enthuses, animated and not chocked.

Women forgets this or don’t seem to care about this so much! But for men it everything!!!

CREDIT TO:

Sapphire Bukola Joseph For Being A Bitch-Ass Researcher .

Steve Harvey For Being A Grand Bitch God-Father.

That Bitch! Who Reads & Drop A  Comment. 

KEEP CALM BITCH!

 Have some fun and Work!Work! Work. Every Gal should know how to move,  Sorry I mean Work! Work! Work!

THE BEND OVER FOOLPROOF

WHAT HAPPENS WHEN A MAN KNOWS, A GAL IS EASY TO BEND OVER BACKWARD? 

  A wise bitch or a sharp dude should please tell me what happens when a Gal let a man know from day one that she is willing to bend backward over? Just like the backward or forward button on the remote-control. Do you know? I bet you don’t! 

 It only a bad-bitch like me who knows and also a very bad-guy that have a clue! Lol.

 When a man knows a woman is willing to bend over backward from day one, the bitter truth is?

He’d think you are desperate, and he’d want to see just how far you’d be willing to bend.

 It is human nature. He’d immediately start to test waters. The more malleable you’d become, the more he’d perceive you to bend. He’ll instantly perceive you as a Duracell battery, as in, “ Just how far will she go? How much can I get out of her?”

Nice-Gals/Mumu-Gals need to know what a Bitch understands.

Overcompensating or being eager to please will lessen a man’s respect; it will give the kiss of death to his attraction, and it will put a time limit on the relationship.

Most men don’t perceive a woman who jumps through hoops as someone who offers a mental challenge.

Intelligent women make the mistake of assuming that if they hold a higher degree, they can hold their own in political debate, and they have a good understanding of mid-caps, they offer a man mental stimulation during dinner. But the mental challenge has little to do with conversation.

To cut the long story short, the mental challenge has to do with whether you expect to be respected. It has to do with how you relate to him. It has to do with whether he knows you aren’t afraid to be without him.

Nice-Gal/Mumu-Gal makes the mistake of being available all the time. “I don’t want to play games,” she says. So, she lets him see how afraid she is to be without him and he soon comes to feel as though he has a 100 percent hold on her.

This often the point when a woman begin to complain: “He doesn’t make enough time for me. He isn’t romantic as he used to be.”

A bitch like me is more selective about her availability. She available sometimes; other times she’s not. But she is nice. Aren’t she? Nice enough, that is, to consider his preferences for when he’d like to see her so that she can sometimes accommodate them. Translation (That-is-to-say)? No 100 percent hold.

What about the Gal who will drop everything and drive or enter Molue to see a man? Find-Out in the next post.

CREDIT TO:

Sapphire Bukola Joseph For Being A Bitch-Ass Researcher .

Sherry Argon For Being a Bitch Ass Author

That Bitch! Who Reads & Drop A  Comment. 

MEET THE BITCH

ALIAS HIS ‘DREAM-GAL’

A ‘bitch’ is every man’s dream girl: whether he admits it or not.She is a dream -gal who won’t kill herself to impress anyone. Unlike the other gal ( 'Nice-gal' Alias'Mumu-Gal' 'Doormat' ).
This is why the woman he really falls in love with, doesn’t serve him a four-course meal neither does she serve him pounded yam, efo-riro with bro-ko-to. And you won’t see her breaking out her most precious fancy china plate, either.

She’ll start out cooking him a one-course meal. (Biscuit). The one she either bought from Shoprite or the one she bought from Salisu the gate-man downstairs her house. No fancy. A cool glass of water or pack of juice to go with it, will do the trick. She simply asks her guest,

“Hey, do you want the bag or the bowl?” 

Six month later, the same woman throws together a meal and puts down a hot plate in front of him. And what does he say to himself?

“Man! I’m special!”

It doesn’t matter if it is hot Amala with Gbe-giri and fresh Tilapia-fish topped by a courtesy Iya Basirat food canteen printed on the take-away plate you picked up from a corner food canteen. He’ll say,

 “This is the best meal I have ever had in my life!’’

Now he feels like a King. And the only difference is the amount of time and effort he had invest, first. He didn’t get it right up front and he appreciate it more. 

This isn’t about how to play a game or how to manipulate someone. This is about whether you are genuinely needy, or whether you can genuinely show him that you’ll be an equal partner in the relationship. It’s about whether you are capable of holding your own in a relationship.

What would happen if you let him know from day one that you are willing to bend over backward? Find-out in the next post.

CREDIT TO:

Sapphire Bukola Joseph For Being A Bitch-Ass Researcher .

Sherry Argon For Being a Bitch Ass Author

That Bitch! Who Reads & Drop A  Comment. 

STOP BEING A LOSER!

"Sex appeal is 50% what you've got, and 50% what people think you've got". 

Everyone has known a "nice-gal". She is a woman who will overcompensate, giving everything to a man she barely knows, without him having to invest much in the relationship. It isn't about looks; gorgeous women get dumped every day.  It's isn't about intelligence. Gals of all types, from brilliant gals to gals with the IQ equivalent of plant life, pulls it off every day.  It's about mystery and learning how to create intrigue with your attitude.  

Which matter most in the 'Chase-Game’?

MEET THE 'MUMU-GAL'

Alias 'Nice-gal' 'Doormat'

Everyone has known a "nice-gal". She is a woman who will overcompensate, giving everything to a man she barely knows, without him having to invest much in the relationship. 

She's the woman who gives blindly because she want so much attentions to be reciprocated. She's the gal who goes along with what she thinks her man will like or wants because she wants to keep the relationship at all cost.