STOP TRIPPING

What happens when a Gal is not more selective about her availability? What happens when a Gal overcompensates?What happen when a Gal drops everything and drives or enter Molue to see a man?  Do you have a clue what that means! I bet you don’t. 

Let me help you to create that perfect picture since you’re jonzing. What’s the picture? Here is the picture.

After a couple of dates, he goes out with the boys, comes in at midnight, calls her, and off she drops everything and goes to see him. When a woman drives to see a man in the middle of the night, the only thing missing is a neon sign/ or a placard on the roof of the car or Molue that says: WE DELIVER. ATI-GBE-DE-O. 

Common Gal do you know what that behavior suggest? Do you  know what being overcompensate  even means? 'I'm a  Bitch no doubts about it. I read and I do my  research very well' . Here is what I find out about Overcompensation: according to Merriam-Dictionary  'Overcompensation' means an excessive reaction to a feeling of inferiority, guilt, or inadequacy. It comes with a cycle of feelings of undesired result.

As a Gal who overcompensate, what do you think your behavior suggest or says.  Don't tell me you're jonzing and need a placard with signs written on it. In a simple language! The behavior suggests:

“WHAT I HAVE TO OFFER ISN'T ENOUGH AND WHO I AM ISN’T ENOUGH”.

Overcompensating is a feeling It’s a huge Red-Flag. A real man’s duty is to protect you. It’s a shame and a huge mistake to be with a man who doesn't have this trait.

Your time with him is telling. The Nice-Gal/Mumu-Gal sits in a chair after a week of knowing the Guy, bored out of her mind as he does something that interests him. He may be watching sports on Tv or playing video games. She is miserable but doesn’t say a peep. Instead, she tries to make the best of it and twiddles her thumbs politely or just ping with her phone, just so she can be in his company. Na-by-force!

A Bitch, is more selective about her availability. She is available sometimes; other times she is not. But she’s nice. Nice enough, that is, to consider his preferences for when he’d like to see her so that she can accommodates them.
 She is busy making plenty of peeps. In fact, she is bitching the whole way through.

This is not a bad thing, because then he knows he can’t walk all over her. But remember, a mental challenge has little to do with being verbally combative. It has to do with your actions and how much of yourself you’re willing to give up. 

For example, he says he likes fair Gals. You’re dark sin, dark hair, dark eyes, and black hair. The next time he sees you, you’ve bleached your hair and dyed your eyebrows to match. Translation? He will sense he has a 100 percent hold on you. 

So Stop-Tripping.

Join me in the next post, where I’ll be addressing the issue that says: ‘A man’s love comes from his stomach’. 

CREDIT TO:

Sapphire Bukola Joseph For Being A Bitch-Ass Researcher .

Sherry Argon For Being a Bitch Ass Author

That Bitch! Who Reads & Drop A  Comment. 

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